Josh and Jake have been pestering me to move James to the bottom bunk and out of his crib. I was hesitant about switching sleeping arrangements because it works, but I’m trying to be more open minded.
Part of me wanted to take the leap because I know it will have to happen eventually. Or, can a five year old still be in a crib? The other part of me loves my sleep and feels at ease with the idea that he’s caged contained all night long. A few months ago I let him nap in the big boy bed, but chickened out when it was night time. What if he wanders around the house or wakes me up at 1 am? He’ll be free!
I took the plunge. A few nights ago my baby slept on the bottom bunk. He made it all the way until 5:45 am when I was awoken by him running into our room yelling “MAMA!!!” It was a success for the most part. Now, I needed him to stay in his room until our magic rocket ship night light turns off at 6:15 am. We have Jake ‘trained’ to wait for the night light to turn off, otherwise he would be in our room before 6 am every morning.
The next morning, I turned on our video monitor at about 5:30 am because I heard noises. Sure enough, Jake was on the bottom bunk playing with his brother. A few minutes later, I heard their door open and James came tearing into our room shouting “MAMA!!!” I had a strong suspicion that Jake set him up. When I went into his room he was laying in his top bunk smiling. Stinker. We told him if he encouraged his brother to come into our room in the morning again, James would have to go back into his crib. This threat has worked so far. Jake would love nothing more than to sleep next to him on the floor.
I decided to put up a short baby gate in their door way so James can’t get out, but Jake can climb over. This has worked so far. I can’t believe we’re completely done with cribs. How bittersweet.
How old were your children when you moved them out of their crib?